I agree it is not for me either. My point is why should we care if gay people want to be married? Why do you care?
There are many legal reasons why a couple should be legally hitched. A gay couple lives together for a long time, in all respects being married, but one of them dies and the other one has no legal say in anything other than what is in a Will.
A civil union solves that problem and gives the same legal status and protections as marriage does, without going after the "M' word.
The following is quoted from
this thread, because I'm lazy and it still applies here.
Gay marriage is not about marriage, it's about yet another special interest group forcing their wishes upon the majority.
In the United States and other similar cultures, marriage has become a social institution, but it is first and foremost, and is still very much grounded in, the institution of religion. A Civil Union would give same-sex couples all of the legal rights that a marriage would. In fact, a marriage presumes and mandates the legality of a civil union by the issuance of a marriage license, which is a civil document. But a Civil Union without the attachment of the word "marriage" to it is unacceptable to gays and lesbians, even though a Civil Union gives them precisely what they are asking for. In other words, they don't really want what they are proclaiming, which is the same legal rights as any other married couple, but rather to force their will onto the religious connotations to redefine marriage as they see fit.
They aren't asking for equal rights in marriage, they're asking for special rights. Because most of the world's religions, and the dominant religions of America, all denounce homosexuality, gays and lesbians are just as much, if not more, concerned with "winning" against religious attitudes as they are about equal rights under a Civil Union. Civil Union wasn't good enough, they wanted to go after the Marriage word.
Gay marriage is about the redefinition of what marriage means to suit the particular wants and needs of a very small segment of society. It's about special rights being redefined as equal rights. It's about asking for one thing, getting it, but then changing what you're asking for.
Marriage was invented for the union of a man and a woman. That's how it had been used throughout most of recorded human history. Now, after thousands of years, instead of accepting society and the world for
what it already is, gays and lesbians want the world to not only make special allowances for "equal rights" that aren't even equal at all, but to actually change the fundamental meaning of marriage. The meaning of marriage doesn't need to be changed. It is what it is. But rather than live within that meaning and deal with it, gays and lesbians want it changed juuuuust for them. Horse hockey.