The poster never made it clear if his statement was pointed at this issue....it appeared at least to me he was being very general....
I was being general, because like the boxer someone mentioned, going on relief of any kind is a shameful act; theft. Now, if your kids are starving, you do what you have to do for the moment, but like the boxer, you consider it a shameful thing, you never admit it to anyone, and you get off it and pay back what you stole as soon as humanly possible. And you pledge to never do it again or let any family member ever get into the same spot.
I occasionally hear of parents who use their children to help then steal. They hide something in a baby's diaper bag our even tell their child to act as a lookout out distract the clerk. They're teaching their children to be criminals. That's what parents do if they use food stamps or WIC or ADC. If I were ever in that situation, I'd make sure the kids never found out, and if they somehow find out anyway, I'd sit them down and explain to them how shameful it is to steal, and how ashamed dad and mom are to have to resort to stealing from strangers to feed them. I'd make sure they never forgot that little family meeting and that they'd forever be too ashamed to let it happen to them.
My thinking
I am a citizen..I pay into it....use it....when necessary......but not abuse it...
Thing is, it's not set up so you're limited to collecting what you put in. If you take so much as a penny, you're taking somebody else's money, money they didn't give you.